He's a Top, she's a bottom. These are their thoughts. Enjoy.
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Sunday, February 8, 2009

Session 1 - My take

Getting things started


• Discussion on what we are going to do

Went over lesson


• Discuss what you what you are comfortable with rewards, punishment, and what is expected. What will help with the mood? Do you wish to be called something? Slut, pet, baby doll

Punishment

Spank – exam – it will still hurt, even though it may feel good

Emotional is more affective. Disappointing R.

Rewards

Praise and positive reinforcement

Back rub, pampering

What is expected

Need a cue – will be start of session – when we obtain collar, this will most likely be our cue

Doesn’t have to happen at home

Mood

Set music

What if I am not in the mood for scene? Should I work through it and do it anyways? Which is what is suggested? Do it, although there will be exceptions (ill, or maybe have 1 get out of jail free card a month)

Names

Me - Pet, Naughty Kitten, Kitten,

R -


• Discuss dress for sessions

Collar (when we get one), pantyless,


• Positioning (Present)

Legs slightly apart

Chest out, stomach in

Hands behind back or behind neck (tbd)


• Clean the sub

Before or after (may set the tone, or may be needed for cleanup)


• If we have communications issues then we will probably set down rules for a written discussion.

So far so good


• Update the blog on your thoughts and feelings after session.

I feel that the session went well. It was somewhat tamer than what I thought would happen. I am very comfortable with what we discussed. I am looking forward to our next session.

Pictures still to be done:

• Mild bondage hands behind back
• Pictures

Present, restraints



These will be posted once they have been taken and edited.

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