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Real says (9:13 AM):
Ohh and clarification. Is your worry not fully about giving up control, but the challange of giving up control to me because of our established relationship and what you are used to?
Baby Doll says (9:14 AM):
bit of both
Real says (9:15 AM):
Ok I thought about it at night and realized I missed that part. In some ways it is easier with a new element.
Real says (9:15 AM):
As in a new or different person.
Baby Doll says (9:15 AM):
exactly
Baby Doll says (9:15 AM):
I also think that I am worried....because....you don't have any experience with this. I trust you, but I don't fully know that you know what you are doing. Does that make sense?
Real says (9:17 AM):
It does love of mine and two new people is more of a challange than one. It also tends to lower your confidence in me.
Real says (9:17 AM):
One never really knows until one tries.
Real says (9:17 AM):
You can always try an online dom if it does not fly.
Baby Doll says (9:18 AM):
I don't know if I could do that
Baby Doll says (9:18 AM):
although, I am wondering about training with someone....like you and me, and someone else
Baby Doll says (9:18 AM):
but again, I don't know if I could do that
Real says (9:19 AM):
Love of mine one never knows things in advance. To be honest I know it is not going to be a quick thing. Anything worth having never is. I think we can do it on our own, but I do not know that for sure until I try.
Real says (9:19 AM):
I am doing a crap load of research and to be honest I have done it without having a clue what I was doing before.
Real says (9:20 AM):
She had never done it before either and it worked.
Baby Doll says (9:20 AM):
I think part of the problem I am having is the labels
Real says (9:20 AM):
Probably worked too well in some ways.
Real says (9:20 AM):
Labels? you mean titles as in what to call people?
Baby Doll says (9:21 AM):
like Dom. sub, scene. I think if we just rolled with it, and I do'nt think of you as a Dom, it will be easier
Real says (9:23 AM):
Sure we can so give it a go and see what pops out. The mental aspect seems to be the hardest in this thing. There is a seriouse preconcieved notion of leather and metal.
Baby Doll says (9:23 AM):
both of which I do enjoy lol