I don't think that it is me that should be deciding when I get punished. It shouldn't be my decision. This is definitely something that we need to be talking about. I don't like the idea that me being me is going to give me a punishment. I don't like the idea that I am going to have to change the way I am so that I don't get punished. The idea totally scares me.
That's not to say punishements can't be fun ;)

If you can't figure out what is going to work...then well....we may have a problem! lol