Hmm I think you don't understand what I said

I think we need to sit down and set rules.

I like your personality or I would not be with you, but I think we need to define things better so that when we have conversations we are not overly jumpy on what is a punishable offense.

I think we skipped a step we looked at what you liked and what you did not like, we looked at safe words, but we failed to look at rules. What we need to do is sit down and build rules I will put something together then we can look at it and go from there.