First piercing

I think we are going to move forward with her first piercing. I have wanted to have her nipples pierced for a while now I have started reading up on it again. My real worry is finding a good place as so far I have not really found a site rating. I figure I will google each store I am considering to see if I can find any negative comments.
She has very nice breasts and nipples so I think this should be a very nice enhancement. We will probably get this done just before our week off from work giving her some time away to get used to her new enhancement. I will do my research then book the appointment.

Blogs I have found..

At first glance, I am really looking forward to reading these blogs....
I can't say for sure how good they are, but so far so good

Submissive Reflections

Slave Musings

Her Owner - Slave Musings' Owner

A Submissive's Musings

24.7

Intelligent Submission

My Dungeon - Love some of the photography

Dennis Najee's Weblog

Sirs Thoughts

Piercings

So, R would like me to list out our planned piercings.
Well, maybe I should do a picture post...lets see if I can find some pics!
Labia (I love the corset!)




Clit hood (not sure if I want vertical or horizontal)




Nipples


Belly Button (this is my reward for having a flat tummy when I get it!)



This would be awesome, as R is a Scorpio! :D

I think one day I will do a post of my tattoos! :D

Additional learning double post

What I did not learn that night but after if you have not figured out by my address we have come up with a title that is so much better than what I find most others call there subs/slaves. I could not see calling her whore, slut, or cunt like some others do. It might work for others and I have called her my little slut before, but it just did not ring right. I wanted something that I could use in public if I needed her to focus or obey without raising eyes.

I want to be able to call her something in public because eventually there will be some work done. By work I mean we have some long term plans for some piercings, tattoos, and a branding. I want to be able to harness some of what we build here in order to help her through all of this. The tattoos and branding will be something that comes down the road when we are both fit and ready. The piercings I suspect will come sooner. Not tomorrow or anything like that I want us to reach a certain point before I get her pierced. I will have my pet come back and post since it has been a while and in her post I would like her to list the piercings that we have discussed.

Figuring out a name for my sub was very important and something that I was thinking of on and off for a while now even before our session of spanking that enforced the need for it. Last night before we went to bed after our normal goodnights I said “Sleep well Pet”. After some silence she told me how it made her feel when I referred to her in such a manner and it confirmed that I picked the right name.

Last point of this very long post I learned what some parts of serving means to my Pet and it excites me to no end. I already knew that she enjoys waiting on me bringing me food and drink, but she has asked me to use her before and I have been hesitant I am not sure why I do that with her.

I know what I wanted and yet I waited and now that she has spelled out what serving means to her we will see how it works. Will she fly or will we flop who can say, but we will try. She has told me that she wants to serve me I can use her pussy, ass, or mouth when I wish to get off she wishes to try servicing me how I please when I please. What man would not be happy at such an opportunity I know I am giddy and hard at the thought.

What happened and where we are

Well this is all about learning and expanding one does not overnight know exactly what will happen even more so is true with our emotions and bodies. That night was no exception, but we did learn a great deal from it.

We learned that there is no way my Pet should be spank without a nice sexual build up first. Cold spanking does not work for her and should probably only be used as punishment for something very bad.

Number two while some people crave anticipation and love the build up my Pet does not, and instead stresses about it until it is no longer pleasurable. Short periods of anticipation work for now, but not long periods so we will play with that in mind at all times.

The switch has been thrown!

I love you for all that you were, all that you are, and all that you will become. I am not sure if there is anything about you that I do not love.

You are perfectly right in asking me to help you reach this point of release and spank you. I did not fully know how much you would need, but I knew that you wanted it and have been waiting and pushing you in different ways to see if you would ask for release. My failing was in not realizing that no matter what I did or how I left you that you were stronger than that.

We will discover together what positions will work for you and while I was unsure earlier this evening that this would happen I suspect you do still need it. I will hold you again as you cry and I will remind you to breathe while telling you how much I love you.

You are right in asking I have been waiting seven years for the answer to my question and you’re asking for this I think has answered my question. I do need to set boundaries for you and I need to make decisions that will server both of our interests. I will love you curling up at my feet and I am already planning a trip out for us to purchase a cushion to assist with that. You can curl up at me feet anytime anywhere I do not care if we have guests or not if they do not like it then they can leave and if we are at their house and they have issues with it then we will leave.

You are MINE and eventually we will both understand what that means. I know tonight did not turn out initially as you planned, but I think we have gained a great deal out of it. Everything will be worked out and I do not expect you to be like any other sub because you are mine.

Tonight

I need your help tonight. I've had this buzz under my skin, in my body for a couple of days now. I need help getting it out. I need you, want you to spank me. I need the release. Please hun? I've been feeling it build and build, and I don't know how to get it out!
I need your help when we do this.
I know this is whatI want, but I don't know where to set up. I don't know what will be the best position. You know my hips, how can we do this?
I need you to help me to remember to breathe.
I need you to let me cry.
I need you to hold me, and pet me.
Am I right in asking for this? Am I allowed to ask for this?
I feel so confused some days. I don't know what my boundaries are. I don't know when it's ok to curl up at your feet, and rest my head in your lap.
I'll be waiting.